Thursday, December 15, 2022

I am Trying to Come Up With Words to Help Us - Don't Let the Enemy Win - Stay Alive

 

Whether we are wearing a uniform or not, we all fight for our country, we all live for the cause of our nation and people. With this fight there are casualties. Some of us die directly in the service of our country; we revere their names and legacies because they sacrificed all for the rest of us. Some troops die in combat, some perish in accidents and mishaps. We mourn their losses. We honor them, we laud them in movies and books, in stories and lessons. Those fallen ones deserve all our praise, and the survivors of those who are lost deserve our love, support, and compassion. Some troops receive terrible disabling and disfiguring wounds. Some wounds lie unseen, which is tacked up as mental injuries, Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome, depression, anger, a whole gamut of negative thought processes and inner turmoil. Some do not go away, or take a long time to get rid of. Some soldiers and troops go to their grave with these psychological battles.

God bless them and us. If you do not have a belief in a higher power or faith in a bigger system of greater good, we ask for your patience and good wishes, and to recognize that millions of living people are pulling for you. And also, please realize that our people and way of life need you. We need you to grow old.

We at times may think that others do not know what we are suffering, externally and internally, but many of us do understand these challenges and setbacks. Some of us have been there. Including millions of former vets. Many of us believe there is a greater love and justice that exists for all these pains and losses that are incurred to our uniformed troops. Death and injury touch us all, we need to fight this battle of attrition for ourselves and others. We need to fight and wage war against self-hate and hopelessness, for those who have no one else to protect them. We have to fight to be free, happy, and for the will to live. And we will ultimately win the war of life! Millions do rely on us. Dozens of nations world-wide depend on our alliance and constant companionship. All of us combine to provide this strength of our people, which pushes out to all corners of the planet. The terrorists and enemies of our freedom want us to fail, they want us to give up.

I urge us to not give in to those enemies abroad. But more importantly, we must not give in to the enemies within. All of us are too familiar with the internal enemies, those that lie in our hearts, minds, and souls. They are real. We acknowledge the power of those influences.

All of us lose loved ones. Some that pass on are aged and infirm; they have lived long and meaningful lives, with friends and family cherishing their presence and influence for those that they touched and impacted. Some of our loved ones go too soon. We know from experience that we mourn their absences differently than the old ones. Why did he get sick, so young? Why did she die tragically, with so much life ahead of her? Why would someone target them, when they were such choice people, who meant no one else harm. The various situations of life and death boggle the mind.

We all suffer from the same ills. It is very difficult when those sicknesses hit hard. We may feel all alone and isolated, but we are not. Feelings are so powerful. Any tremendous, euphoric feeling that you have felt, someone else has gone through that. Any sad or depressed mood that you have gone through or feel, others have been there, too. We do not understand all your thoughts, but we understand the sentiments of despair and hopelessness. Other people get it. They know what you are going through, if you are there now. Being down is part of life, and some people experience the down times more than others. We feel for you when you are there. What can we say to you to prevent the worst outcome? Fight the battle for the next day. Fight on, battle buddy. Drill sergeant gonna bring you home!

We are all in the same fight, engaged in a war that started before you and I were on the earth, and that will continue long after we are gone. What can we do while we are here to stay in the fight? Train, prepare, execute the mission. Shoot, move, and communicate.

We are all on the same team, and we need you. You may not think so, but it is true. We need you to survive, battle wounds and internal demons and all. We, soldiers and the supporters of the troops of the United States Army, need all our troops to live on. You served us when you were in good shape, and we are there for you when you are not in good condition. We need to continue to keep our great nation going, and believe it or not, all of us make this happen. The ones who never faced combat, the battle hard veterans, the burnt-out leaders, the neophyte beginners. We are in this war together, young and old.

If you cannot have the strength to keep from harming yourself for you, would you do that for me? For others? For our country? For another soldier who is struggling to find the hope?

This is not a pep talk just to say these things, this is a plea to help us win the war, to fight the battles that keep us from triumph, to assist in our side coming away as the winner. The losses that bring defeat to our lands and shores need to be faced, moment to moment, day to day. We will be victorious, and we need you. We want to attend your funerals as you are aged and ripe with life’s toils and joys, both extremes of emotion, plus the normal middle times, are necessary to get there. Can you take that journey with me, with us? Can you live to be an old military vet? I challenge you to take on that training, that career path, that life goal. Be an old man or a woman. Make it past those doldrums, make it past the barriers of pain, and live on soldier!

We need you.

We could talk about a lot more things: we do our lectures, our resilience trainings, we hear sermons and talks, we read books and dialog with therapists and professionals. At the end of the day, we simply wish to say: We want to win the war. Your presence is noted and appreciated.

Fight on.



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