Pre-Marital Sex is Quite Common and Ruins Us

    Going back hundreds, and thousands of years, (and likely even millions of years), there was pre-marital sex between us humans. Or our ancestors. The marital union and bond of man and woman, the structure of proper parents and children, was cheated by those who experimented or indulged in sexual relationships among the sexes. Whether heterosexual or homosexual in nature, active sex lives outside the bonds of matrimony lead to ruined people, socially, psychologically, and even financially. It stunted many, wounded more, and is a constant threat against healthy and productive lifestyles.

    Don't believe me? Call me a prude or a religiously ensconced cisgender male? So be it. I am, and I proclaim that being married prior to sexual contact and relations is the right way to go. Do not let the liars and the morally bereft fool you. Too many have been lied to and fooled. Now in the 21st century more than ever, but it has gone back more generations than we can count. The lies go back to the beginning. Whenever that was.  I do not know all things, but I do know some things. I will tell you the truth. The truth will make you free. The truth, albeit, strict or uncomfortable, will help you and me in the long run.

    Parents and partners deserve each other in fidelity and commitment, not casual sexual partners before and during these higher law relationships. While many will teach and preach that early and young sexual exploration and experience is healthy, natural, beneficial, normal, I am here to tell you that all those things are not true. These early experimentations are harmful.

    I am not the only one. Most religious faiths uphold sexual abstinence till marriage. Some even advocate no sex at all, ever. I disagree with that extreme, but they have their reasons. There are secular psychologists and modern-day scientists that posit the same. There are millions, if not billions of us that posit that we should all wait for marriage. I understand that it is hard to do, especially when coerced.

    But encouraging active pre-marital sexual relationships is wrong. Despite all the popular media and even scientific data supporting it, it is not right, it is not good.

    Abstinence till marriage. Not even co-habitation. Nope. Wait till marriage.

    Many will say it is none of my business, or anyone else's, that it is a private decision and practice, that it has not effect on anyone else. Wrong. It affects all of society.

    Kids come from pre-marital relations, which leads to mostly poor results and outcomes.

    People have to recover from these mistakes for generations. And some never do.

    I am not saying that married people and their children suffer no problems. But, many issues and conflagrations are avoided by waiting and being more secure in their intimate, legally bound, relationships.

    Disagree? Please chime in, and explain why. I will be happy to entertain your thoughts.

    Even if there is no God nor an afterlife, pre-marital intimate relationships have to be cared for closely and the acts of sex avoided, prevented.

    I will share more, later on examples of how these non-sanctioned relations do us damage.