Tuesday, April 7, 2026

Knowing Jesus and Doing His Will

 Knowing Jesus and Doing His Will

    We celebrate the Lord and Savior on Easter Sunday. It is a time of remembering, celebrating, worshipping, and faith. Many celebrate and remember with sharing eggs or candy for the children. This is nice. Christians in all places have their ways of showing their respects, devotions, and traditions for Easter.

    In my family I recall going to the Tudor Room, a more posh restaurant on the IU campus at the Indiana University Memorial Union. Belgian waffles and things fancy. Or, maybe that was more Mother's Day in May. Although maybe both. This, after attending church, of course.

    We would have chocolate bunnies and the cotton-like colored bunnies, and fun eggs to find around the house. Sometimes we would paint the shells, and there would be the egg searches at the city ground so Bryan Park across the street.

    Easter: bigger than even Christmas in the Christian world. Or it should be.

    The world of Christianity is very large thus far in the 21st century, despite the growing numbers of atheists, secular "nones" (people with no religious affiliation), agnostics, decreasing birth rates in Western and traditional Christian nations, trends of some going back to pagan or nativist faiths or practice.

    Made up fictions have gathered their own belief-system momentums like Star Wars, Star Trek, Lord of the Rings, and dozens and dozens of other fictionalized universes. Some people mark Jedi as their religion on their dog tags for the military. It is as real as anything else that some people claim.

    In 2025 I learned quite a bit more about C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien, plus many of their friends and acquaintances. Both of these thinkers and writers created their own worlds, but it turns out Tolkien was very Catholic, while most of us knew that Lewis was a very popular Christian apologist. However, it is interesting to note that Tolkien was vehemently opposed to Lewis claiming erudite scholarship as a Christian apologist since he was not trained in the science nor authorized as such by any faith, not only the Romans of Italy but by no faith under Protestantism as well.

    They had their disagreements, but they also believed in creating their own myths. Which, going on a hundred years later is still going strong. Hugely successful, especially Lord of the Rings. They made the Silmarillion into a coherent story, and spent a lot of money on it. Rings of Power...

    Faiths and beliefs of power.

    Jesus Christ is the Answer, proclaims the living prophets of my Church of Jesus Christ on Easter weekend last Sunday, and His members and missionaries try to share and spread that message and witness. And 12 plus apostles, like we believe were established by the Lord Himself.

    I will send this. Written up the so many  days later, perhaps unfinished in scope or intent, but sent.

Sunday, April 5, 2026

What Christianity Brings

 What Christianity Brings

    It brings good and bad. When applied wrongly, it can get ugly.  Awful. Almost the worst. Millions have died for bad reasons in its name. Like hate and oppression and control, which is not what Christ intended, surely. Jesus did say and proclaim things that implied revolution and force, but not outright hostility and violence. Yet people over the centuries have used His name and His religions to justify hatred and violence. Like the Crusades. Were those correct? No, we can agree.

    Muslim and Jewish people have suffered unnecessarily from many Christian-based regimes, governments, and even Christian movements over the years because of unrighteous actions by so-called Christians.

    All this said, Christianity can be very good, too. Philanthropic, full of good will very often, charity and well-meaning charities, magnanimousness, organized systems that help others, even the poor. Jesus would approve. Education. Alms and health and anti-poverty drives and inititiatives.

    Metaphysically, or spiritually, Christianity works well for millions, if not billions. Jesus the Anointed One, the Promised Messiah, brought His Kingdom to earth, as planned, and conquered death and died for our sins, paying with His blood for our eternal redemption, defeating or washing away our sins.

    We as believers and practitioners of Christianity enjoy or take advantage of great interpersonal and collective benefits.

    However, there are those of us that misuse or abuse those gifts. We may be prideful or overconfident, bossy or self-righteous in our attempts to be a good Christian, a follower of the Master, Son of God, Jesus the Messiah.

    Belief and faith in Jesus is supposed to be about joy and renewal, not abuse or over lording.

    But we can make mistakes in trying to do His will, and we do all the time. Individually and collectively.

    So, I wish us all a Happy Easter, and I recommend temperance and patience, solid faith and love, and not extreme acts of hypocrisy or chicanery.

    Let us be our best selves, this Holy Week, Easter holiday, and always.

    Let us be brothers and sisters to our Muslim, Jewish, atheist, and agnostic, secular friends and cohorts.

    Being Christian is a privilege that we should never exploit.

    Be good, be loving. Be a good faithful, follower of Christ.

    

Saturday, April 4, 2026

The Perfect Write Up

 The Perfect Write Up

    Sometimes, or occasionally, I will write something and I think it was really worth its print, and I want to share it. That happened last night.

    But: technical difficulties arose, and it got chopped up. The end of it was lopped off. By me! Yes, I did not save it and publish it right. I may have published it wrong, the morning after. Ach, the morning after.

    "Yelping Foxes". My last post. I shared it on social media this morning, thinking it was complete, completed.

    Boo.

    I tried to cover down on some of what was written, what was deleted. I was talking about the moon, the foxes and dogs of the world, the goings on in Iran, our troops, oil prices, women's basketball...

    Ugh. I goofed it.

    Oh, well. I will try again some other time.

    Get it right.

Friday, April 3, 2026

Yelping Foxes

 Yelping Foxes

    Outside my house, down a sloping hill, we hear the foxes scream. It is not something I grew up with or that I am accustomed to over the years, the decades of of my life in different states and countries.

    Foxes, screaming and yelping, whelping or crying. Smaller canines.

    Like dogs, or wolves, or coyotes. Dingos? Another breed? Or those jackals and hyenas of the African continent. Maybe large parts of Asia, too. Europe must have some feral canines as well. Dogs, mutts, yelpers and barkers and growlers all over, everywhere. Back alley and far off woods, forested mountains and deep, dank jungles. Dogs and packs and groups of hounds and sharp teethed runners. Canines with canine teeth, no matter what genus or breed or family

    The foxes behind my house are not too ferocious. Perhaps they suffer and fear?

    They cry and scream.

    Meanwhile, a U.S. fighter pilot lies dead or dying, or captured and scared, but maybe safe and relieved, in Khuzestan, a province or region, in the Zagros Mountains of western Iran. We pray for his safety.

    His flight crew buddy is all right, a little battered and bruised, but he made it.

    While Iranians struggle for their survival.

    As do people in the fighting zones of Ukraine, which most of us forgot about, or part of war torn Sudan, which still more if us never cared about.

    Americans and Canadians and Mexicans and all the others are paying much more for gas or petrol this last month, certainly. We subsidize the rockets and the planes and the ships and the troops.

    All connected.

    People own dogs, and take them on planes flying around the globe. Not much fear of them being shot down by enemy air defense weaponry. Accidents do happen, but not as much in the air as on the ground. Not as much drunkenness and social media with "smart phones" up there, gratefully.

[I had more: I accidentally eliminated it]

Dark splotches on the moon, the plains and valleys...

Come back to the land of the yelping foxes, my dear. (That had been the last line.)

Oops. I will try to fix it. I sabotaged my own post. I had mentioned how the couple on a two month vacation from Florida were in Palm Springs, with their little dog half Shiatzu and Havanese, a black and white good natured dog that suffered on take offs and landings, but chewed its chewies in the wheel chair of its elderly owner, the ones from Cleveland.

    Foxes down by our creek with the turtles. No fish, but amphibians like frogs. And bugs.

    The rather full moon with its darker splotches, must be those features that our astronauts are hurtling to see. The far side, unseen by human eyes before.

    Christians celebrate Easter, while Muslims weep, in places like Iran or Gaza or Sudan...

    It was composed, but I think I may have wiped it out this morning.

So, the foxes cry and yelp, and I am alone. Last night, now, but the family is coming back from Denver, where I waited with that dog in Denver, at a Southwest terminal, not Frontier.

    Okay, I got out the last of it. Astronauts are over halfway there, where I watched them on FoX live TV. Who needs Internet when you have Hulu? 

    A channel for randos like me.

    Sorry disjointed, it flowed better in my original writing.

    See you soon. 

    The moon and the foxes and the hounds and romantic spaghetti scenes. All of it.

    There.

Wednesday, April 1, 2026

Bryce is on the Board, 2026. Sneaks back to Get the Nats

 Bryce is on the Board, 2026. Sneaks back to Get the Nats

    Where were we? Harper finished in the top 100 last season, at the end of 2025? Now he is 33 years-old. Still got a few prime years left, we presume.

    Last September 20 Bryce was at number 89 all-time with 363 career home runs.

    He hit one today, this afternoon, to help his Phils come back from a decent deficit. The relievers for the hometown (no, the visiting team) Nationals fell apart, or maybe the coaching did, because multiple pitchers for the Nationals were giving up runs in the last three innings. They lost in 10. After being up 5-1... Good six innings by the starter. Who was that? Cavalli. New to me. Maybe he's a goer?

    Enough about Harper's old team. About him. Now:

    He's at 90th with 364 all-time homers. He fell back because I think Freddie Freeman and and Manny Machado have passed him up in the last days of 2025 and the first week of this year.

    He is just ahead of Joe Dimaggio, who I am pretty sure hit for a better average. Joltin' or Jumpin' Joe. Different times, different eras. 

    I talked to some parents of a former major leaguer  now double A coach on a plane Sunday.

    The game. Michael Lewis knows. He knows a lot.

    Here is the current standings of those near Bryce Harper.

    
78.Norm Cash (17)3777914LHR Log
 Jeff Kent+ (17)3779537RHR Log
80.Carlton Fisk+ (24)3769853RHR Log
81.Rocky Colavito (14)3747559RHR Log
82.Paul Goldschmidt (16, 38)3728831RHR Log
83.Gil Hodges+ (18)3708104RHR Log
 Aaron Judge (11, 34)3705023RHR Log
85.Todd Helton+ (17)3699453LHR Log
 Ralph Kiner+ (10)3696256RHR Log
 Manny Machado (15, 33)3698215RHR Log
88.Freddie Freeman (17, 36)3679384LHR Log
89.Lance Berkman (15)3667814BHR Log
90.Bryce Harper (15, 33)3637687LHR Log
91.Joe DiMaggio+ (13)3617672RHR Log
92.Gary Gaetti (20)3609817RHR Log
93.Johnny Mize+ (15)3597372LHR Log

Analysis later.

Mize, a Hall of Famer, as of course Joe. Mize played from 1936 until 1953, with military service from 1943 to 1945.

    Seems like a whale of guy. Lifetime .312 hoter. Dimaggio? Played in the majors the same starting year as Johnny, 1936, and ended a bit earlier in 1951, also doing military duty from 1943 to 1945.

    What a generation! Here, here, the heroes of yesteryear.

    Bravo, Mize and DiMaggio.

    Play on, even in the heavens.

    And let's play another.

History of You and Me: A Poem-Like Thing

 History of You and Me: A Poem-Like Thing

    I love you

    You love me.

    But: that does not mean that I don't avoid letting you down.

    But: that doesn't mean that I cannot make you feel loved, secure, and hopeful for all things.

    Or some things.

    Hopeful for some things. The essential things. The most important things.

    We know, to varying degrees, that only God can make us hopeful in all things. 

    Love. Respect. Honor. Virtue. Hard work. Attraction. Chemistry. Good humor. Devotion.

    What is our history? 

    I have not given enough. I must give more. 

    You always give, you are not selfish. 

    You give and give and give.

    The former president says that he is in a debt to his wife.

    I understand that.

    I get it. And the president has been much more successful.

    Arguably. No doubt.

    So, I have to be a better guy, better husband, father, provider, protector.

    This is the history of you and me.

    And I pray that it does not end soon, nor will it ever.

    We have today, tomorrow, and next week, and next month.

    Yes?

    Thank you for saying yes.

Monday, March 30, 2026

Airports and People on a Sunday

 Airports and People on a Sunday

    No Pre-TSA, no problem. It was sketchy. But things worked out.

    The cookie cracker in my back pocket was confiscated! Ummm. Didn't want to spend anything in there. Airports cost too much. So, the lady from Montana gave me her delicious breakfast bagel sandwich! They gave her an extra, she did not want it.

    Hmmm... Not bad.

    The couple coming back from Palm Springs vacation to their Bradenton, Florida vacation. With their little shitzu-Havanese dog. An the D.C. lady in the wheel chair asking about the week's weather. My app did not bring it up well so I went to the web page.

    The couple from a small town near Sacramento who has the son coaching Double A. Former shortstop. 

    Finding the vehicle in the Economy parking. Green or blue?

    Back for the Duke and Connecticut game. Wackadoodle.

    Back to work, working on things. 

    By myself in the house. Here I am.

    Must, or want to check out the ole' (new) blog Artistic Musings.

    Yeah. Blogs.

    

Friday, March 27, 2026

America the Beautiful - Is It Now

 America the Beautiful - Is It Now

    We are mighty, powerful, flawed, and... so many other things.

    We send missiles, planes, ships, troops, all over the world. We try to ensure laws and commercial agreements and flows. Money and capital goods need to go where they do.

    China, despite its pretensions and poor human rights with its own people, allows free trade to happen. At least. People and governments deal energy and goods. This is how the economist Adam Smith has described it. The Invisible Hand must keep moving, always.

    We pay more for gas and in so doing we subsidize the bombs, rockets, and troops and materiel that we send to parts known and unknown.

    We are bold, by most estimations, but not necessarily beautiful.

    We commit a lot of errors. We try to do the right things.

Thursday, March 26, 2026

God is in Charge

 God is in Charge

    I have worshipped with some Buddhists. Some Hindus, or hari krishnas, I have danced with, chanted, broken bread. They are considered Eastern religions in today's standards. I have grown up my form of Christian, with some attention and participation in Islam and Judaism.

    Philosophies I have been acquainted with, perhaps considered practicing, thought about and contemplated. We ...
    
Continued days later. Now in Oceanside, California. Happy Spring Break.

    Worship and relax.

Monday, March 23, 2026

Salinger- Another Victim of Social Engineering

 Salinger- Another Victim of Social Engineering

    I read a few books about J.D. Salinger, a famous or even infamous author for a few reasons. He faced some awful times in Europe, dealing with some of the worst tragedies and fighting that the war had. Plus, he came upon a death camp, where the atrocities were still raw. Burnt flesh, really bad. Emaciated and tortured prisoners.
    It haunted him for the rest of his long life. He was scarred. 

    Darwinism brought a lot of good to the world, but some folks took it way too extreme and it manifested itself in Germany, especially, where people like the Nationalists took it to the awful conclusion of the Holocaust, which laid waste to vast communities of the world, including the former Soviet Union and millions of Ukrainians, Russians, and many others.

    Soldiers from dozens of the world over perished, some never found. Thousands not discovered till this day, deep into the 21st century.

    Salinger was a byproduct of those times. We study his case still.
    

Sunday, March 22, 2026

Ebal and Gerizim

 Ebal and Gerizim

    The two ancient hills confront each other, facing off, looking and gazing toward the other morning and night. They sat in the plain of the ancient land for millennia: they sit standing, gazing upon each other still. In the 21st century. They await a greater destiny. World events and happenings will come upon them in our future.
    
    It is not the stones of the mountains, these Palestinian or Canaanite hills, that stare down the other. It is their spirits. Spirits and even demons of the past, present, and future.

    Abraham, the faithful, came here from the Mesopotamian plains, from Ur and Babel of the river valleys and wadis far to the east. He came more directly from Haran in the north, in the great lands of Asia Minor, Anatolia. Making his way to the Promised Land.

    The two mountains stood facing each other north and south, for millions of years, some say, scientists posit that the earth and our solar system developed as such. But then come the Hebrews, and perhaps before them the Zoroastrians, and the One God Jehovah, also known as Yahweh, created our first fathers, Father Adam and Mother Eve. Then Shem, and Methuselah, and Noah, till our Father of Nations, Abraham, husband of Hagar and Sarah, went through the land to make it his. And God's, according to tradition.

    As Abraham approached the mountains heading south from Anatolia, on the plains of Esdraelon, he noted the rocks in the clefs of Ebal from afar off. The water had been good in these parts, as opposed to the hills and valleys of much of the way thus far. What would later be known as Syria and Lebanon, he had moved on because of the lack of propitiousness of their natures. Not charged enough, not sound enough. Not evincing the right will of God. Even though the verdant rolling slopes of the future Golan Heights impressed him, Abraham knew it was not the right place.

    Something about craggy Ebal, and the lush Gerizim to the south behind it, as they, his small party, swooped forward, back and forth from left to right, with their camels and donkeys, rising and falling on the valley floor away from the sea to the west, made him stir within himself. But as he often would, he was not entirely sure within himself, so he would push his thoughts and feelings to his beloved Sarah, and also his firstborn Isaac. He had known Ishmael of his servant Hagar in the flesh, but he spoke to his foreordained son Isaac in his dreams. Sarah would, too.

    "Does that seem like a holy, heavenly place to you?" 

    Sarah responded with fortitude. "Perhaps my tired feet and overworked soul are speaking to me, but those mountains seem to me a holy place. We should ask locals around here."

    So they did. There was a band of sheep herders who lived in and around the twin mountains. They, these pastoralists and nomads, claimed special powers about the place. They would go between the great sea to the west (known to us as the Mediterranean), cross between the narrow pass of what would be named Ebal and Gerizim towards the fecund valley of the later known Jordan River, whose waters fed from the lush Golan Heights. They thought the path fortuitous and blessed. When they did not pass between the two rocky mounts, misfortune would befall. Especially circumventing Ebal to the north.

    Hmm, thought Abraham. I must stay south of Ebal. He had learned its name. The taller mount, by a few cubits, to its close partner and smaller twin, Gerizim.

    The passage between them had monuments and many graves. Holy enough.

    Samaritans would someday, centuries and centuries later, build their holiest temple Hyksos there. The Greeks loved their gods there, as did the Israelites of Moses.

    There and then, with Levi and Judah and Benjamin, Joseph and his two sons, Ephraim and Manasseh, plus Simeon and Issachar, the six southern-based tribes would counter-pose the other six of the north, symbolizing blessings versus curses. Blessed to the south, cursed to the north.

    The southern kingdom would prevail for a while after Sennacherib and the Assyrians pillaged and broke loose the Northern tribes, but eventually almost all would flee.

    The Samaritans, the mixed peoples, would claim Ebal and Gerizim. Lost to the peoples of Judah, and most of Israel, even till 2026.

    Ishmael's or perhaps Keturah's six sons and their bloodlines would alight upon and about the city that would go from Shechem to Nablus. Nablus, another Naples, like the more famed city of Italy, a later, greater empire.

    Empires become these places.

    Holy or cursed.

    Today it is controlled under Arab hands, measured. There are occasional eretz Israel (Zionist) settlers who look to intervene in the otherwise not too bad West Bank. What is the population? Over 150,000. I think of that as crowded, especially nudged between Ebal and Gerizim. I can imagine houses of stone crammed together, spanning the ascents of the hills, these two mounts, climbing higher and  higher. How far up to the mountains go the homes? Like the ever-rising homesteads in California and the benches of Utah, or Colorado, where mansions and dream luxury houses go on into the elevations, the rises. Like the twin mounts here. How many live above, like at Mount Tabor or Carmel?

    It is not walkable like Mount Carmel, where Elijah did amble two plus millennia ago. Burning down the bullocks over the imaginary Baal and his misled priests. That is more a solitary mount, where we walked it thirty years ago in my religion class. In the Holy Land. Must be more Israeli Jewish owned, I presume?

    Neighborhoods in the Holy Land can and should be for tourists, but then there are places like Ramallah or some Ultra-Orthodox area like Mea Sharim near downtown Jerusalem that cater to the locals. Muslims, Jewish. Some Christian places are safer, or more universal. Mount Carmel was safe for us, many other Christian sites.

    In a year when the peace process was still moving forward. Times change. 1995. 2026. What will the future bring? What does the Bible say? What do people believe? Do the prophesies fulfill themselves?

    Animosity and hatred boil up. Like the last two and half years, too intensely. Down further along the coast in the Gaza Strip, where Ashdod and Ashqelon were located anciently. Folks other than Hebrews, or Israelites, who where Philistines or Phoenicians.

    The past and the present, the historic and tragic of yesteryear prefigures the future. Is it always violence and hate? Is there always the good and the evil, those against God and those for them?

    Ebal and Gerizim. Curses to the north, rocky, barren, empty. Blessings to the south, fecund, fruitful, blooming. Half of the twelve tribes represented, symbolized the cursed among the covenant of the twelve. Zebulon, Dan, Nephtali, the other three... All were given to Ebal, the lowly opposite of God's chosen. The taller mountain to the north, but the more forlorn.

    Cursed. Do we believe that the opposite of blessings occur? If there is a God, be there curses?

    Ebal and Gerizim. 

    The saga continues.

    How many lives and destinies are lived out here, between the shadows of the mounts of the plain, swept up in Har Megiddo, where the End of Days will transpire? Who surrounds the Holy Ones of Israel?

    Where are the Twelve Tribes now? We are they.

    The Mountains are us, the rocks and plants and all of the spirits having lived and breathed and died there, facing one another, looking after the good and bad, is found in us now. And forever.

    

Saturday, March 21, 2026

AJ Dybantsa Needed to GO to the Rim

 AJ Dybantsa Needed to GO to the Rim

    Two minutes to go, BYU had trailed all game but had cut it to four, and Texas was ripe.

    AJ did not drive. He dribbled and set up a play. For a missed shot.

    He. Needs. To. Go. To. The Rim. 

    Downhill. Get to the line or get a three point play.

    But. We lose.

    We lost a great athlete prior to the season, then Dawson Baker, then Richie Saunders.

    Thus went the season that could have been...

Thursday, March 19, 2026

I Picked Houston, I want BYU, then Purdue

 I Picked Houston; I want BYU, then Purdue

    None of them have won the NCAA, or did Houston with Olajuwon? The Phi Slamma Jamma?
    
    Anyway, the great Purdue teams have not, nor have the mighty Cougars of BYU.

_____
UPDATE: Cougars tried to rally late, but not enough.

Two minutes to go and AJ and the rest should have gone to the rim...

    Ugh. 

    Go Purdue?

    

Thursday, March 12, 2026

BYU Basketball Has Hope. Say "Moo".

 BYU Basketball Has Hope. Say "Moo".

     The Brigham Young University Cougars Men's Basketball team was going to be a top ten program this season. Then, injuries.

    First, it was a guy that I do not know his name or much of his story. I will look that up. He was new to the school.

    Then, fifth year senior Dawson Baker, kind of the perfect sixth man off the bench. 6'5", a good shooter, tough, versatile, experienced. Then: Richie Saunders. Ugh. He was part of the big motor of the offense and the defense. Even though they struggled for a bit with him playing healthy prior to his gut wrenching injury around Valentine's, man do they miss his abilities and heart.

    Thus the Cougs were getting punked by Cinncy and UCF, and others. They rallied to beat a tough Texas Tech squad (minus their injured guy Toppin). In Provo, where the recently better BearCats had handled the Cougars.

    We needed guys to step up. We needed Kennard Davis, among others like Mboup and Ahmed, and of course Keita and Kostic or Boskovic or Diomande. Whoever. Mrus? Not enough defense.

    Well, then I learned that they call him "Moo". Two nights ago versus Kansas State. Moo!

    Yes, not a canard or kennard! We got Moo. Davis has been playing better, getting more shots, rebounds, being who we hope he might be. The big guys have been doing better... Kadim or Khadeem is fun to see play with his vigor.

    No Pickens, Baker, or Saunders? We shall see... 

    March Madness.

    Oh, yeah. We got Dybantsa and Wright.

Wednesday, March 11, 2026

Indiana Men's Basketball Sucks so Bad. It Makes me kind of Ill.

 Indiana Men's Basketball Sucks so Bad. It Makes me kind of Ill.

    Out-coached, out-played, out-hustled, out-thought-- The Cats are much better than IU, proving it twice in the last two or so weeks. The death knell was being snookered and out-punched by them in Bloomington not too long ago. Tonight is sadder still. The United Center, a place to beat an inferior squad.

    NO!

    So bad. More later. Maybe. Likely.

States and Quasi-States: 2026

 States and Quasi-States: 2026

    Most of us know about the strong states of the world today, the countries and governments that have powerful militaries, financial or commodity strength that imbues them with powerful authority and influence.
    
    We know the big ones: China. United States. Nigeria. India. Russia. Germany. Brazil. Japan. Mexico.

    There are many small ones that we do not pay much attention to: Andorra, Malta, Vanuatu, Tuvalu.

    However, there are some states that are not even recognized by most of the world: Somaliland, Puntland, Baluchistan, Kurdistan. Nations, or peoples, without states.

    Note that many, or most of these quasi-states are Muslim. East Timor, a newer country that emerged in 2002, (not 2003, as a government interviewer tried to be brow beat me about not knowing), broke off from Muslim Indonesia. Is the religion or culture of Islam prone to separating from other states and governments?
    
    Quebec wants to be independent from Canada, at times. Some are ardent about it. Natives the world over have desires of more than autonomy, but fierce independence from their sovereign owners, if you will.

    What are the states and quasi-states that you know of?

Sunday, March 8, 2026

Dear Niece[s]: I have Been thinking about you. From the Uncle Guy, sort of Far Away

Dear Niece[s]: I have Been thinking about you. From the Uncle Guy, sort of Far Away

    Hello there, my niece! This is for you. I take being an uncle somewhat seriously, but my life is fashioned in a way that I have concerns that distract me from being as good an uncle as I would like to be. If it were up to me, I would have a dream job where I would work about two days per week, earn about 50,000 per month (I am not asking too much, right?), and I would have money and time to visit you, take you places, and have a really good time. Caution: I do not drink or smoke, and I would not encourage that behavior with people in my company, but I think we could make do. My dad always said that we saved so much money by not drinking alcohol or smoking, that we could afford real butter and nice dishes and deserts. But travel is about imbibing and savoring the local foods and libations, yes? But for me and us, we will stay away from fermented things and chemicals. Unless it is gnarly kim chi that does not make us drunk.

    Sounds good, huh?

    We could go a lot places; normally I would take one or more of my children with us. My kids will soon be living in five different places, so maybe we would visit them. That would be awesome, I know. But we would go to other places, like islands and continents that people do not care much about. I have looked at a lot of maps all my life, and I have some fun ideas to do. Would you go with me, maybe my wife and kids, if I could pay your way? Too good to be true, no?

    Anyway, I do not want to be too bossy or imperious upon you and your life. Mostly I would like to show you and your parents that I think that you are neat. Special. Family. Children of my siblings and siblings-in-law, cousins of my children, all deserving to have some good times and experiences.

    For the record, I have nieces in the following places: West Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina, Indiana, Texas, Utah, Idaho, Washington, and California. Did I miss anyone? There are a lot! From eleven total siblings and in-laws with kids, I reckon. Oh, I think I have one in Minnesota. They keep spreading around! I think 50k monthly would allow me to accomplish some visiting and travel goals.

    Yeah. Travel and world visits. That would be great. But not so likely, it seems.

    Sorry. I am not that guy. Yet. Maybe ever? Time will tell. Some money and some materials could come my way... Eventually. Maybe not.

    What else? Whether I have the time or money to help you do some fun travels, that might not materialize. (Sure, maybe we can arrange some more affordable visits?). But what else is there about being a good uncle?

    Know that I think and I care about you. I want you to be happy, and what is best for you. You, in my and many people's estimations and considerations, are a daughter of God and your potential is limitless. You deserve to be happy. And, as my daughter recently expressed, gratitude is something even more important than happiness. Gratitude contains and imbues joy. Be joyful! And thankful. This is something wished for by me, my family, your family, parents, siblings, cousins, grandparents, and on and on.

    Great men and women throughout history want what is best for you.

    We--I want you to be with the best people, and have the best lives. I do not want to be bossy nor iperious.

    I care for my own children, I want the best for them. I love my siblings, my in-laws, our parents, who are all pulling for you.

    Advice? Work hard, be humble, try to be fair. I cannot always do all those things, but I will continue to try. Expect the best from others; do not put up with those that abuse or denigrate you. Live in a way within your means and try to serve others as you can.

    I hope to see you sooner or later; I hope we can share a meal together, a trip or a show, or simply a nice conversation.

    Love, 

    Your uncle 

PS: I directed this to the girls who are my nieces, but much if not all of the above is for the nephews, too. Maybe more with them later.